You're right. Reading through some of your posts, folks DO tend to jump to a conclusion with you. It happens quite a bit. Maybe you're not fully explaining your thoughts.
I think it's more like he explains what he's thinking, then people tell him either what he's doing wrong or how to fix the problem, then he bites back with how he's an expert in woodworking, electronics, and whatever else he feels like and doesn't need our help.
More time , less time posting...hope you have better luck with the new pickups.