hey dudes how long does it take for laquer to harden sufficiantly to where i don't have to worry about damaging it while working on it.i let my neck sit for a week before i put veneer on the headstock and i still damaged the finish.and which is harder,laquer or enamel?i want a tough finish.isn't laquer what most guitars have?and on a different subject where are all the guitar building girls at.i'm not trying to be a perv but it just seems strange that all you people are guys.(maybe half of you are women and nobody knows it,like in chat rooms or something.)i also don't see very many girls playing really aggressive guitar either(the actual number around here is zero)what's up with that?