Well, the Petrucci video is about discipline. It's in the title! And I needed some discipline. The video is all about developing and honing technique, and while it wasn't exactly what I'm looking for, it's definitely improved my playing and even made me a fan. Maybe I'm just getting older and my tastes are maturing?
I want to play musically, no matter what I play. I've been known to play everything from country to thrash. The issue is that I want to start playing the stuff that I have inside, not other people's stuff, and unfortunately after all these years of guitar playing (probably more appropriately labelled as guitar dabbling) I never developed an understanding of the underlying musical concepts of why.
Right, but scales have their place, because they are relatively easy to learn. They present the notes in an orderly fashion to learn, and then you can make lines and phrases out of them. It's like learning the alphabet before trying to spell.
Actually, the Petrucci video has gotten me focused for the first time in a long time about my playing. At 29, I have few delusions about being a rock star anymore, but I have finally come to appreciate being able to truly play. Thank you for the suggestions though, I'll look into them.
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