I didn't mean to start a pile-on, really. And I don't need cupcakes and whatever, I just don't need the condescension and rudeness. You can be curt and still not rude.
And just to set the record straight, I appreciate any help people give to me, I realize it takes time out of their day to help a stranger. I'm also not stupid, I ask for advice and sift through it to see what works.
Perry, if you want to avoid me, fine. I realize you know more about this than me, but it doesn't excuse the attitude. Don't try to disguise is as being frank, it's being rude. I don't think you had a run at me, you just seem irate with my question and the way I went about trying to understand your answer. I'm always willing to bury hatchets, so there's no reason for a feud, but I'm not a kid and I won't lay still for being talked down to.