Ok, Photobucket seems to be having problems so I only saw your photo once when I first replied.. Bother.. Stupid Internet..
Anyway, from what I can remember of the photo, the connections you mentioned sound a little funny.. I think you've gotta see which of the lugs are connected when the switch is one way, then the other.. Normally (and I think your switch should be the regular ones) the center 2 lugs will each connect to the corresponding lug on either side depending on the direction of the switch throw..
For example, when the switch is thrown up, it should connect as shown in the crappy diagram below.. (Like I mentioned, Photobucket is being a pain.. And I use it too..) The 'O's are lugs.. | show the connection..
1 O O 2
| |
3 O O 4
5 O O 6
Basically, what you've gotta do is to figure which lug connects to which (using your trusty multimeter), then make sure that the pickup live goes to the jack..
Assuming a normal switch, I'd put the pickup live at lug 3, then put the jack output at 1, leaving the rest empty..
Hope that helped.. Sorry if it's a little confusing.. I realise I'm a bit of a nerd..