Unclej Has Died - Thanks To All...

[egdeltar]

Wow.... more horrible news. Far too many PG members have been passing as of late. RIP Unclej.

[unclejsripple]

The mental pictures you all (sorry, John... "Y'all") have shared of Uncle Johnny are spot on. Exactly what he wrote like, that was who he was. I cannot tell you all how much I learned from him and (now that all I can do is look back on it) how increasingly reverent I am when reviewing our shared times... I will share with you all a portion of the eulogy I was honored to deliver at his service, because I know how much a part of his life this all was. And I know he had mentioned Lovekraft to me a few times - many condolences to his family, friends & ripples as well.

You know well the whole town would want this opportunity to be here... and aren't we the lucky ones? For to feel the pain of the loss we share means that we have had the gift of his presence in our lives; to feel the hole inside we all share means that we have known and loved another worth knowing and loving; to hurt and to grieve and to mourn and ask why means we are alive, we are able to feel, and all systems are okay.

This is not supposed to be easy... it wouldn't mean anything if it was.

The hands of That Greater do not measure by what is left undone; incomplete projects, unrealized plans or uncounted pennies. We do that because that’s what we see from our perspective. What matters is what you have done, whose hearts you have touched, how much beauty you have created and dispersed. If we are to be judged by our actions and ripples, John is to be judged by wood art, songs, his impact on our lives, and the strength of his character. By this measure, three men cannot fill the shoes of Uncle Johnny... that's why it hurts. It's a wound. It will take time to heal. We would be nothing without our scars...

...No opportunity to make light of anything or inject humor of questionable taste into any situation, so far as I saw, ever snuck by John Kirtland. He set every one of us up for a spike or punch line at least once, and we can all rest easy (and John can rest in peace) knowing he will be at every party and gathering ever where anybody who ever knew him is there. There are that many stories to tell...

...But what I really learned from Uncle J is that if you want your life to mean something, if you want to do justice to this gift we have of consciousness, skin, bone, and sunrises, make what ever you do mean something and don't waste your time on trivial stuff that does not. Don't get hung up in the drama; don't let it stick to you. Toss your pebbles into the pond... make ripples. Make your footprints your prayer, make them big enough so others can fall into step. Lead from the front even when it looks like you're kicking back on the side... and leave your heart prints on other people's souls.

Help each other to heal, and your healing will take care of itself.

Thanks again to you all for sharing all you have shared with Uncle Johnny. ~Scott

[Southpa]

Thanks alot for that Scott. Just remember, UncleJ lives on in this forum. His words, thoughts and emotions are here, in print. That also goes for other fallen giants like Lovekraft and Bluespresence, they still live here, sharing their experience, giving advice and helping people.

Edited January 20, 2007 by Southpa

[Daniel Sorbera]

i just don't know what to say...i kept planning on stopping in to meet him in person on one of my trips to wimberly,but i never did.

Me too. He invited me up to come check out his shop, he wanted to take me out to lunch and check out some of the guitars I've built. Now I'm sorry we never got around to it. This is horrible news indeed. UncleJ was a great guy.

[ToneMonkey]

I saw this last week but really didn't know what to say. UncleJ was a true gent and will be very much missed.

Love to his family and all those he left behind. If it's any small comfort, I think that he went out a happy man.

Peace UncleJ

[weaponepsilon]

Aw man! He was always the Genius foil for my inexperience. Look at any of the topic where I ramble on about something half intelligibly, he would add it his two cents and my questions would evaporate. Take care Unclej, may we meet again to do that dueling banjos routine.

[Jehle]

Well, this is sad news. We've lost at least 3 forum members since I've been here and the news always hits me the same. I've never met any of you face to face (save one over in the UK), yet to hear of a members death is always very sad.

RIP Unclej.