Oil will work, no you do not need a sanding sealer, yes it will darken the wood and give a warmer hue.. Those more familiar with finshing techniques will tell you that pure tung oil is not that good. I use Sam Maloof's (one of the world's best woodworkers) formula, it is a combination of tung oil, boiled linseed oil and polyeurathane. It works really well, it give the look and feel of oil and seals the wood with poly. You wipe it on, then wipe it off- let dry 24 hours- then repeat another four times (these simple steps will give you a VERY EVEN finish) It is available from highland hardware, you do not need the wax/oil stuff, only the poly/oil is needed.