Who's bad-mouthing Seymour Duncan and Dimarzio? Ed Roman?!
The SD Jazz neck and JB bridge is a good combo for just about any style. Alnico II Pros sound good too--just check out Slash. Dimarzio's FRED and PAF Pro/Joe combo is also an excellent choice for versatility.
It does come down to your budget, too. Bartolinis and EMGs are going to be more expensive, especially if you start adding on presence and boost controls, but they're going to sound awesome and clean. SD and Dimarzio both make fantastic pickups and popularized the whole concept of tailoring pickup choice to your own style.
I use to run an SD Alnico II Pro HB Bridge, Classic Stack mid, and JB Jr. neck in my Strat. I run through a lot more digital effects now, so I switched over to an EMG SA set a few weeks ago and the new sound suits me just fine. I spent $197 on the new setup, but for my current playing style it suits me just fine. Some people like the sound they get out of a $20 MightyMite Motherbucker, some like the sound of an $800 USED set of Joe Bardens.
Play around with 'em for a while until you find YOUR sound. But I do recommend the JB/Jazz setup as a good starting point for your interests.