its all still not resolved yet.
his claim to refund me "all my money", what means by that could be my initail costs (the auction price + postage) but that might not include the cost of sending the thing back, so im sending second class as cheaply as i can.
as for feedback, if i get a full refund then fine, positive feedback and i'll put it down to a misunderstanding.
i guess i shouldnt get so worked up about these things, i suppose its the thought that something might go wrong and i could end out of pocket, no guitar, and negative feedback...