I like both as each have their qualities. The Seymours in my Ibanez S are a great set, and the sounds are different to what I get from my Explorers. Comparing active to passive is just as relevant as comparing single coil to humbucking. You choose what is right for what you want.
I actually get nice clean from the EMG-60, but the 85 and 81 are too high an output to not drive the front end of most amps. The nature of actives is that there is always power on tap, so pulling back on your playing style doesn't end up being as dynamic as on passives. Actives feel "linear" to me, but I wouldn't use the term "sterile". Same as I wouldn't term passives as being "characterful". There are a hell of a lot of sterile passives out there, and actives can be just as characterful, but perhaps not in the same areas.
I'm happy to sit on the fence of this one because I use both, and have no need to weigh judgement on either against the other. The only thing that sticks in my craw is the differences between EMG and "common" pickup rout cavities for the soapbar 707, 81-7 and 808. Pshaw.