the way i see it, you have 3 options,
1, just lower the pickup and then bear with it, since you'll still have positions 2 and 4 that have the pickup, but another aswell for volume.
2, get a dimarzio solo virtual vintage solo, or chopper, which are both hotter and aprox 9-10k (why does this matter???)
3, take some guitar lessons and learn how to hold the pick differently
3.2, don't have a middle pickup, and just coil split and miss match the neck and bridge together for position 2,3 and 4 on your switch.